February 5, 2016
PornOCD Interview with Natalia Coxxx of TS-Natalia Coxxx
PornOCD: I read an interview in which you described yourself as 3rd gender, Natalia. What does that term mean to you personally?
Natalia: Well, I have always used this term 3rd gender due to the fact that I don’t feel like I was born in the wrong body, or felt more like one gender than the other. I love my girl parts and everything about being feminine, and I also love the fact the I have boy parts that work very well. But that is all secondary to the way I think and act. I do things that most males do when it comes to certain things and I always do the same things when ii comes to emotions and driving (lol) as most females. But it’s the understanding of both genders that make me comfortable with myself. 3rd gender to me can be born male or female and on the outside trans, it’s a sign of the times to me. Plus, I tell everyone on the outside I’m The Lady, The Goddess…SHEE… But on the inside, I’m a huge muscle bear into leather and really kinky things. But it’s is the ability to have these two lives in one body and not nut up the beauty of it all.
PornOCD: You were born and raised in New Orleans. Your mother was from Haiti and your father from Cuba. How was growing up in New Orleans?
Natalia: Well, we left NO in like ’89 and moved to Chicago where I went school and spent a lot of my childhood. It was an okay childhood. My mother was very old when I came along, so it was a very sheltered PK (preacher’s kid) kinda life.
PornOCD: I love the quote you use, “My goal was not to perfect, but to who I felt inside.” How supportive were your friends and family with your decisions early in life?
Natalia: Funny you ask that. I was speaking to a group of parents with trans youth, and I explained to them that I had a veered from small group of family that was behind me. So I became a bitch from hell during the start. I didn’t care who liked or did not lie about my choice of lifestyle. As I got older, in my late teens, I met a group of gay guys who supported me, but were still judgmental about my choice to have a fitness model look. But while in high school, at the very start of the entire creation of ‘she’ there was a story in the Chicago Free Press titled “Principal Gives High Heels on Boys the Boot.” That was me.
PornOCD: You moved around before settling in New York. How different a city was New York at first compared to back home?
Natalia: Well, I first ran away to NYC at 16 and found a “sponsor” who really showed me the glamour I always want from The Roxy to APT doing all types of “Grown Folks Things.” I always say that’s where I grew up because that is where I learned how to be that powerhouse I’m still becoming. I now live in the Hollywood Hills and it’s huge change, but it growing on me.
PornOCD: How important is having your own style and personality and being confident with just being you?
Natalia: To be honest, I’m a collaboration of many ideas and emotions in which are all trying to express themselves. So it is very important that I allow it to be authentic in expressing it.
PornOCD: When did a career in pornography come into your thoughts?
Natalia: I was flat broke and was ready to sell my body and a good sister of mine sent me a number to a guy. A few weeks later, I’m being flown to Vegas and then to L.A.
PornOCD: Do you think that Social media has been good for the porn industry?
Natalia: It depends on which side your looking from. From a star’s point of view, yes and no. From a viewer’s, it’s great.
PornOCD: You have been through some hard times and have chosen to talk about them in your TS-Natalia Coxxx blog. Was it a hard decision to open your soul to the world and your fans?
Natalia: It’s very hard coming from the family and background I have. You never show that you might be going through anything, but I have a few people call me and talk about these feelings that they had and they felt alone. So I felt it was only right of me to let someone know that they are not alone. Plus, when you keep so much inside, it takes up room for the great times that are to come.
PornOCD: How much pressure do you think being a celebrity and a person in the public eye puts on people?
Natalia: It depends. I’m still trying to drop my single and be cast in the next box office hit. But I’ll let you know after that lol. And from what small notoriety I have, the only issue I have is when it comes to dating. Most people, men and women, that approach me and I chose to date, see me as the object without feelings and basic human reactions. Sometimes the person freaks out due to the fact the have already made this perfect person in their heads, and I can’t always live up to others’ idea of who they see me as.
PornOCD: You mentioned you have a fitness body. How much work does it take to stay in such great shape?
Natalia: Well thanks to alien DNA. I don’t have to do much. I try to eat as healthily as possible, but living in California and having a Fat Burger just a few minutes away sometimes tries my good eating lifestyle. I do try and work out at least one week a month hardcore which keeps me up and moving.
PornOCD: How many girls in the industry do you consider to be friends?
Natalia: Very few now. I know a lot of them, but would never share too much with “THE GIRLS.” Some use what you say against you for their own personal gain.
PornOCD: If you could change one thing about modern society, what would it be?
Natalia: Just one lol. Well, to sum it up, I feel that NEW WORLD ORDER should be in effect. We have only this planet to live on, so why are there so many places as an American I can’t go as a woman, that I can’t enter and as gay/trans, that I can’t live in? So that’s the one thing I would change, which I would change a lot more. And making me the leader would be the only right thing to do lol.