July 20, 2016
When I got the chance to interview Kacy, I jumped at the chance. She is working hard on her website and tweeting some incredible updates on Twitter @KacyTSDate. Enjoy my interview with California TGirl Kacy of KacyTGirl.com.
PornOCD: Let’s start at the very beginning. Where were you born and raised?
Kacy: New Jersey, just outside of New York City. The opening credits of The Sopranos where they show views from New Jersey Turnpike catches glimpse of my years until about 19 years old.
PornOCD: When did you first feel that you wanted to live as a TS?
Kacy: As you can imagine, that’s something I’ve given a lot of thought to. I grew up in a household with my mom and two sisters and a basically absentee father. I found myself in my pre-teens going through their intimate apparel hanging to dry in house and then next thing was going into their dresser drawers to check them out when nobody was watching. So at first and for a long time, I thought it was a fetish thing. Fast forward to later in life when I realized that I was always more drawn to my feminine side, more comfortable with girlfriends. After several heterosexual relationships, I realized that I was a pansexual. And so it was later in life that my physical being came into alignment with my emotional feeling that I felt most comfortable as a tgirl.
PornOCD: Did you have any good friends to confide in how you were feeling?
Kacy: Complicated area when it comes to me. I’m not a social butterfly by nature and my true friendships are limited in number as a result. I get very close and am very open with the few true confidants that I have. At the same time, my insecurities always worry about being liked, even with my closest of friends. So this has basically been a solo journey and to be completely candid, that is something I am ashamed of, i.e., not completely trusting those who are close to me. It’s frankly a “me” problem and at some level I feel I’ve lied to them.
PornOCD: When did you first tell your family and how did they react?
Kacy: For reasons completely unrelated to my being a tgirl, I’ve been estranged from them for many years. Believe you me, I wonder how I would’ve crossed that bridge, but we parted ways at a fork in the road prior to my coming out.
PornOCD: Do you ever wish you had the chance to sit down and tell them?
Kacy: Being the youngest in such a small and dysfunctional family unit, it wasn’t a normal, a “blood is thicker than water” situation. I was on my own from an early age, so for better or for worse, it’s not something that enters my mind much.
PornOCD: When did you first view pornography?
Kacy: lol Time to carbon date my [ahem] “maturity”. My first porn was via buying VHS tapes in adult bookstores. Must have been after I moved away from home right after high school graduation since a tape player was beyond our means at that time. At the risk of jumping the gun on one of your questions, tgirl porn has always been my thing 🙂
PornOCD: You did second guess my next question. What really caught your eye about tgirl porn and did you have a favourite star?
Kacy: A roundabout way of answering your question. Being an escort that meets with a variety of clients, I find that my clientele generally falls into three buckets; those that want to experience things with me that their significant others won’t do with them. The “admirers” that are simply turned on by my secret specialness and all things tgirl and those that don’t necessarily want to “be with” me, but more so want to be like me. Although I didn’t recognize it during my early porn watching days, later on I realized that I was in that latter category. Sulka was my favorite tgirl porn star bar none.
PornOCD: So when did the idea of making a career in porn first enter your thoughts?
Kacy: I had been escorting for a while, first as a cross dresser, then as a transvestite and eventually as a transgender individual. I got on Twitter to boost my exposure as an escort and I followed Christian XXX of Pure-TS. He contacted me and asked if i had an interest in doing a handjob / blowjob scene with him. It was at that point that I thought, “hmm does that interest me?” Well, next thing you know, I was driving to Vegas for my first porn video scene. I am truly grateful to him for giving me my first opportunity to do a porn scene. He is a great businessman, while at the same time being very good to the tgirls that he works with. I’ve tried to reciprocate by always promoting that scene and think i’ve done alright since it started on his clips for sale page, then worked its way onto the “Trannie Blowies 1” cumpilation VOD and now I have a performer’s profile on Pure-TS.
PornOCD: After the shoot, did you think, “This is the career path for me,” now?
Kacy: Yes and no to be honest. I didn’t do as well as I would’ve liked and that sort of thing drives me to improve. So I was hungry for another opportunity. I mainly did fine art, fashion and boudoir type photoshoots after that, and was pounding the pavement for another adult video shoot opportunity. I replied to a casting notice on Model Mayhem for an all day fine art group nude shoot in the Mojave desert with photographer Matt Granger. Nine of us drove out in a van to an abandoned water park near Barstow, CA. Four each of genetic males and females and this here tgirl. I remember during the early part of the shoot doing a group pose where I had my arm around @JasmeenLefleur of jasmeenlefleur.com and she was so very hot in both temperature (it was January in the desert you know) as well as giving off such sensuality. At start of that day, I thought I was the only adult performer in the group. Towards the end, I learned that Jasmeen was as well. Afterwards, we stayed in contact and when I went to her home base of Vegas to meet with my clients there, she came by my room, since she knows what it’s like to be on the road and alone, and she brought me a goodie basket with Sprouts Maple Creme Sandwich Cookies, Kettle Corn White Cheddar Popcorn, and fresh fruit! She also lined up a video shoot for us that weekend with the production team of Don & Wes from @UrbanLesbians. She did that purely for my benefit so I could seed my website with quality video content since Don & Wes are incredible filmmakers. That awesome creative collaborative experience is what hooked me on doing porn.
PornOCD: For those who have not seen it or not heard about it, tell us about your work with Jasmeen Lefleur.
Kacy: Prior to that video shoot we did together with Don & Wes, she was gracious enough to be my plus one at the 2016 Transgender Erotica Awards. Something else she has done for me purely because she’s an angel. During the TEAs, she said her goal was for me to be up on the stage receiving an award the following year. Working with Jasmeen is an inspiration because the camera loves her. And it’s not any of that “genetic lottery” BS you hear said about beautiful women like her. It’s because she’s a pro and works hard at her craft. During our “Wifey Kacy Put in Place” video shoot, she played the angry spouse taking me to task for forgetting our anniversary. I followed her lead as she spanked me, forced me to eat her pussy and ass, and made me go down on her strap on dildo before fucking me with it. You know, your typical kiss and makeup sex. lol. But during our other erotic and nude shoots together, she’s been the sex kitten to my cougar tgirl. Thus far, the “Pink Raincoat & Pink Chair” is the hottest photoset of us together. I think it’s quite obvious in the videos and photosets on my site of us together that we most definitely have on camera chemistry. To be completely candid, when I’m within arm’s length of her, I’m always turned on.
PornOCD: How much fun did you have at this year’s TEA awards? Did you get chance to meet everyone you wanted to meet. Do you ever get star struck ?
Kacy: It truly will be hard to ever top the feeling of being a part of the TEAs. I got to sign my headshot for fans and admirers at TEACon. The night of the TEA’s, I was on the red carpet being interviewed by the gorgeous Morgan Bailey. I got to have convos with Ada Black, Korra Del Rio and Natassia Dreams. At the After Party, I was able to chat with Miran and she actually knew who I was. I also got to meet the good people of Grooby.com who I had been doing freelance website QC work for in the year prior. Yes, I was most definitely star struck while chatting with Jessica Drake. The red latex dress she was wearing at the event was amazing!
PornOCD: What can your fans look foward to seeing in the very near future?
Kacy: I’ve begun self producing video content for KacyTGirl.com. Recently debuted on there “Kacy & Buttplug Have a Happy Ending” that is a 20 minute solo with a cum shot ending. I’m trying to make such selfie videos more than me just blowing a load on camera. I attempt some story telling through picture editing and adding in a musical score. I already have footage that needs to be edited together for a sequel video. Photosets from a photoshoot with Wishing Tree Photography of Louisiana should be added to site soon. It will include pics ranging from my first ever bikini shoot to erotic nudes with sex toys. My next big thing is gathering funds for a trip to Houston to do a shoot with photographer Omar Wax. I’m also looking to somehow do my first photo and/or video shoot with another tgirl.