April 13, 2016
In September of 2015, I was lucky enough to interview the truly incredible German TS Star Alexandra Vexx @Miss_Vexx on Twitter. Let’s jump right into it.
PornOCD: How was growing up for you in Germany?
Alexandra: It is interesting. Me and Germany have a tough relationship. I am thankful for growing up in a country with a proper healthcare system, especially with the background of me being trans, but this country with its people and their mentality just drives me nuts sometimes. All these bureaucrats and unnecessary hoops combined with a conservative mindset, that’s not my thing. I always lived here my way and that brought me quite some trouble :p
PornOCD: When did you first realize you wanted to live as a TS?
Alexandra: It was at the age of 14 when I realized what I wanted, but couldn’t start until I hit the age of 22.
PornOCD: How did your family and friends take your decision?
Alexandra: My family hated me and still does. They support me somewhat, but have still about 0.0 respect for me and my decision. My friends were always super supportive and helped me out on every end. They are the best.
PornOCD: How have you dealt with negative rude people during your life?
Alexandra: Until to some point in my life, I didn’t deal with such people at all. I avoided them and just didn’t listen. I mastered the technique of “I don’t give a f*ck”. Now I’m actually pretty fast at confronting these people.
PornOCD: How much porn did you watch growing up?
Alexandra: Alexandra: Not much. I just couldn’t enjoy it. Normal porn that is. I developed a liking for the more extreme kinks and finding these was not easy when you had no Idea how the Internet actually works.
PornOCD: What first made you decide you wanted to make a career out of porn?
Alexandra: I was with 19 when I decided to make my career in porn. Sounds shallow and pretty dumb but that was actually a dream for me. Now I am really working on it and it still feels surreal.
PornOCD: How much of a decision was it to apply at Grooby?
Alexandra: That was always the fix-point. It took some motivation though. I always felt I am not good enough (I still do sometimes), but after an a*skicking from my fiancé Freija, I sent my application in and it actually worked. Weird.
PornOCD: How many scenes/photo shoots have you done so far?
Alexandra: For Grooby Productions, one. For the rest of the Internet, for customers and my ex-girlfriend; who I worked with as escort, several hundred. Ranging from super amateurish stuff to professional shoots, everything is covered.
PornOCD: What girls within the industry did you look up to before you entered the porn industry ?
Alexandra: Idols not so many actually. I always held my friends high who work in the industry now or plan to work in it. Most of us started actually within the same year. Willow Krueger, Jenna Creed, Miss Penny Pound, my big sister Minty and a lot of girls who don’t have a stage name yet. I really love how we all support each other.
PornOCD: How did you feel on the day of your very first shoot with Kalin?
Alexandra: Tired! I had to travel from Germany to London and after getting lost at Heathrow with my girlfriend and finding out border control destroyed one of my makeup kits and lost a pair of my heels. I just wanted back into my bed.
PornOCD: Seems you love keeping fit and exercising. How important is this to you?
Alexandra: I do work out at least once a day. Even if it’s just a short 30 min jog with my dogs. I should step it down a bit though. My diet and my workout made me a bit tooooo thin :p
PornOCD: Who would you love to do a scene with
Alexandra: A foursome scene with Willow Krueger, Jenna Creed and my fiancé Freija Ase. We four are a deadly quartet and good friends. Scenes turn out 1000% better when the actors actually have strong feelings for each other!
PornOCD: What porn movie last made you masturbate?
Alexandra: I have to admit… It was a movie featuring me where I had sex with my girlfriend. Ohgod I’m horrible.
PornOCD: Describe yourself in five words.
Alexandra: Freak, Cookie Monster, Dog Person, Gladiator.
PornOCD: How do you think the TS porn genre is doing?
Alexandra: Judging by how many awesome ladies are working in the industry and how we are seen by other transwoman, I would say we are in a god damn good spot. We are idols.
PornOCD: Do you have a motto for life?
Alexandra: “The hottest thing you got is confidence” – Danko Jones
PornOCD: How important a role do you think social media plays in porn?
Alexandra: The most important. Now that we actually have a medium to voice our concerns, contact others and exchange opinions on things, the industry got more lively than ever and made many of us to more than just mute dolls.
PornOCD: How much do you like interacting with your fans?
Alexandra: I do like it from time to time. Though I have to say, working in two jobs and having a poly-relationship going makes it hard to find time for it. Every now and then, I love to step back from everything and play the question and answer game with a fan.
PornOCD: Do you have a name or #hashtag for your fans yet?
Alexandra: Not yet actually. In the future I will reclaim #gearfreakqueen … be prepared!
PornOCD: What is next in your career?
Alexandra: I already have a lovely fan base from my previous things I did on the Web. Goal now is to expand that. I am willing to work for it and I will cross borders; literally!
PornOCD: Have you ever met anyone and been star struck?
Alexandra: I was sitting in the Metro in Berlin and my friends stared in awe at the guy I just bummed a bubblegum from. It was Bela B. from the band “Die Ärzte”. I didn’t realize it until a friend told me. I couldn’t breathe for 20 minutes.
PornOCD: Do you get enough time to just relax and masturbate?
Alexandra: Alexandra: No. Totally sad. I sometimes have to do it at work!
PornOCD: If you could have dinner with three people alive or dead, who would they be and why?
Alexandra: Al Capone, Tilda Swinton and Bud Spencer. Al Capone because he was said to be a horrible charmer and really charismatic. Tilda Swinton because she’s witty and my idol and Bud Spencer because he is my childhood hero and most of the time comedians have the saddest stories to tell.
Follow Alexandra Vexx @Miss_Vexx on Twitter and don’t forget to stream or download her incredible work on UK-TGirls and TGirls.Porn. She also on Tumblr at ts-alexandra-vexx.tumblr.com. For bookings and business contact UltimateVexx@yahoo.com